What I find interesting on this message board is that coaches here don't even address the topic of a runner's sex drive. Well, I think I have covered that topic pretty well here--but I have more to share.
See--having been a runner myself I can relate to the lack of being able to get any--and why. Some of you will still be hesitant though you have been given the soundest of advice on this subject that you will get anywhere--because you are paranoid about your own shortcomings.
As far as you females goes--here is my ask advice to you (at least for now): guys are such a lump of confusion that whatever you say--so long as you stick to your guns--they will do. If a guy is acting too stuck on himself--don't panic, but don't be afraid to become a bitch, too. You just simply have to teach this lump of confusion the difference between right and wrong and not get so upset about it. Don't be a nag--be an "I told you so" type of female--and only sometimes ever say outloud "I told you so." The End.
You guys have little questions that still plague you that even married men seem to have no answer for, like: Does size matter? Do women actually crave sex--and how or why? Is a bj normal or an acquired enjoyment for women? And so forth.
Now, I can give you the answer to all of these questions--but alas, why should you believe me? How would I know such answers if I were not gay--and why listen to a gay anyway since they are so messed up in the first place? Rest assured--I'm not gay or bisexual. I am strictly heterosexual but I cannot answer these mysterious questions for you. I do, however, have a way for you to answer all these questions and more for yourself. If I could put you into the mind or the mindset of a female--and I can--then you could answer these questions for yourself and there would be no more riddles for you to solve.
But, alas, it seems that not very many male runners here are the least bit interested in the opposite sex well enough to even bother with learning the answers to such mysteries. What? I started a thread about trying to get you all not to be afraid to humiliate yourself and only one person bothered responding to it. Maybe it wasn't the best of threads--but still it makes me wonder. Anyway, I am hesitant on going any further with this on account that I don't want to get kicked off this forum like I have 3 previous occasions. So, if there is no interest in KNOWING the answers to these mysteries that have plagued men since the beginning of time--then I will let the matter drop. But rest assured this--I DO know the answers and I can for a certainty make it so that YOu will know the answers too.