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I've talked to him about this before, I think 9.5 is high end on the size scale. He may want to reply himself about the money, but in the past he didn't seem interested in accepting cash... I think he prefers to collect stuff and deliver when he makes it to Laos.
If the shoes you have are relatively new, there are some projects that will accept shoes. In DC it is the DC Red Wings... or something like that. There was an article in RRCA magazine that had an address that accepted shoes in ANY condition... if they couldn't be used, they ground them up to be used elsewhere. I don't have that address, but maybe someone else will know what I'm talking about.