Hi everyone,
I am writing here because I need advice. I've been dating this woman (32yo) for 4 months now. The first 2 months were amazing, but I notice she starting to take me for granted... she started being more sleepy, preferes to stay home and watch tv. She also gained weight... I don't know but I do not find this attractive in a woman...
She has a little girl from her previous relationship, and she often speaks to me about how great it would be if she had a sister or a brother... I told her I am not ready and at this stage of my life, I have no wishes at all of having children at least for 2 or 3 years... but she keeps coming back with that topic. Is she trying to pressure me or what? It makes me uncomfortable and I told her that, but it comes back...
I do not wish to take any harsh decision, but should I break up with her? She says she is really comfortable and feels good with me, but the fact is... I do not want to have children unless I want children, and I would not want her to miss the opportunity of having children because she seems to really want others...
I am maybe not the good match for her...
Please advice