We have been together a year and a half. I mentioned moving in together, but she says she can't because of work and family issues. She lives 15 minutes away and we only see each other a few times a month. We talk on the phone sporadically throughout the day, otherwise it's about three quality days throughout the month, and a few quick visits here and there. There seems to be no change in the near future in this pattern. We also only go out places maybe once or twice every two months. Most of the time spent together is an hour watching one show on TV and then she has to go. Would you stay in a relationship like this after being committed to this person for a year and a half?
Would you stay in relationship with a woman who due to scheduling conflicts never sleeps overnight with you
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Since you got me to read this you do get a 1/10 for trolling
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Hit and run
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Wondering21 wrote:
Since you got me to read this you do get a 1/10 for trolling
It's a true. And she actually wants me to stay faithful to her.lol..
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Knower of all knowers wrote:
Hit and run
We do have sex, but then she has to go. She never sleeps over!
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if it's true, the answer is NO YOU SHOULD NOT KEEP IN CONTACT WITH HER.
3x per month you watch tv together for an hour?
you are not dating this girl. lol
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in a relationship wrote:
Knower of all knowers wrote:
Hit and run
We do have sex, but then she has to go. She never sleeps over!
You forgot that part in your original story so I was just trying to help you out.
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high school xc coach wrote:
if it's true, the answer is NO YOU SHOULD NOT KEEP IN CONTACT WITH HER.
3x per month you watch tv together for an hour?
you are not dating this girl. lol
Last night after not coming over since June 16th, she came over while I was working from home. Sat down on the couch, turned on her favorite show, proceeded to eat some of my food, have sex and then it was time to go. I discussed with her that I need a plan for the future and this wasn't working, and she said that this time she could promise me nothing.
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Knower of all knowers wrote:
in a relationship wrote:
We do have sex, but then she has to go. She never sleeps over!
You forgot that part in your original story so I was just trying to help you out.
I forgot to add the part that, although she can never come over and see me, she fully expects me to stay home alone and if I go out anywhere to a bar or anything she becomes furious.
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I'd consider that a red flag. Perhaps you're her side piece and she has another boyfriend she sleeps with as she likes to play various men to arouse her depleted emotional senses.
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Who is the other guy on her schedule?
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Steve The Addict OFFICIAL -----^^^^^ wrote:
I'd consider that a red flag. Perhaps you're her side piece and she has another boyfriend she sleeps with as she likes to play various men to arouse her depleted emotional senses.
I've seen absolutely no indication of that. I was spontaneously asked her could I see your phone for a second to look up something and there was nothing there. Now I know she could have erased it. She's also always at home, but you could be right about playing various people.
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in a relationship wrote:
We have been together a year and a half. I mentioned moving in together, but she says she can't because of work and family issues. She lives 15 minutes away and we only see each other a few times a month. We talk on the phone sporadically throughout the day, otherwise it's about three quality days throughout the month, and a few quick visits here and there. There seems to be no change in the near future in this pattern. We also only go out places maybe once or twice every two months. Most of the time spent together is an hour watching one show on TV and then she has to go. Would you stay in a relationship like this after being committed to this person for a year and a half?
So what's the deal with her work and family issues? Is she a mom like ESP and Allyson Felix?
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Sounds like she’s married and has a family and you’re the affair. The fact she doesn’t like to go out with you often is because she doesn’t want to get seen and her husband finds out. My advice is ask her what she wants in a relationship. You have to also make a decision, are you ok being the affair?
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Probably a troll but I’ll bite.
She 100% has a bf and just having some fun on the side. They may or may not have an open relationship. Likely she’ll go back to him full time shortly. This is more common then you think.
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in a relationship wrote:
Steve The Addict OFFICIAL -----^^^^^ wrote:
I'd consider that a red flag. Perhaps you're her side piece and she has another boyfriend she sleeps with as she likes to play various men to arouse her depleted emotional senses.
I've seen absolutely no indication of that. I was spontaneously asked her could I see your phone for a second to look up something and there was nothing there. Now I know she could have erased it. She's also always at home, but you could be right about playing various people.
Here's a funny story. She can delete messages. However, I once was seeing this broad who would delete messages but then I looked in the recycle bin on her phone and they were all there. That was the last day I seen her for anything serious. The recycling bin is there for a reason: to catch dumb cheaters. Try examining that.
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Steve The Addict OFFICIAL -----^^^^^ wrote:
in a relationship wrote:
I've seen absolutely no indication of that. I was spontaneously asked her could I see your phone for a second to look up something and there was nothing there. Now I know she could have erased it. She's also always at home, but you could be right about playing various people.
Here's a funny story. She can delete messages. However, I once was seeing this broad who would delete messages but then I looked in the recycle bin on her phone and they were all there. That was the last day I seen her for anything serious. The recycling bin is there for a reason: to catch dumb cheaters. Try examining that.
Correct - she would have to be a dimwit to leave messages there.
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She's having sex with other men. You are being played.
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in a relationship wrote:
Steve The Addict OFFICIAL -----^^^^^ wrote:
I'd consider that a red flag. Perhaps you're her side piece and she has another boyfriend she sleeps with as she likes to play various men to arouse her depleted emotional senses.
I've seen absolutely no indication of that. I was spontaneously asked her could I see your phone for a second to look up something and there was nothing there. Now I know she could have erased it. She's also always at home, but you could be right about playing various people.
Dude, you're the side piece. But that's OK if that's what you want.
She can easily have 2 phones. That's what I would do.
Have you ever been to her place?
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in a relationship wrote:
We have been together a year and a half. I mentioned moving in together, but she says she can't because of work and family issues. She lives 15 minutes away and we only see each other a few times a month. We talk on the phone sporadically throughout the day, otherwise it's about three quality days throughout the month, and a few quick visits here and there. There seems to be no change in the near future in this pattern. We also only go out places maybe once or twice every two months. Most of the time spent together is an hour watching one show on TV and then she has to go. Would you stay in a relationship like this after being committed to this person for a year and a half?
Give her the boot and find someone else you will be glad you did.
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