My coach is dragging me down to get my teammates better. What do I do?

High school girl?

You've made so many of these threads. At this point it looks like you're looking for someone to blame, if you don't perform well.

You've been told countless times - the greats train alone, no single workout is a miracle, it's completely up to you.

If you truly want to be good, stop posting here, stop looking for an excuse, and just put in the hard work.

the wrong person found this..

No, I'm not looking for an excuse. if you actually read it, you'd see that. I clearly stated that I'm trying a new angle, so why you even bothered to comment that I've done this before is stupid. I'm not blaming anyone, I'm looking for a solution. I do work hard, but it's limited. If that's all you can say, why even comment? You aren't doing anything uselful

Yes you are. Quit blaming your coach. You've been told the solution. Do it yourself.

If you fail to take responsibility - it's on you.

HOW is it on me? Explain that exactly. if my coach is limiting my pace on runs, my workouts, etc, HOW is that my fault? I'm not even allowed to run extra. So don't even, 'lack of hard work'???? That's the opposite. Go bother someone else who gives a crap

"stop posting here" bud stop bothering people here, go do something with yourself other than harassing high school students

Hope you figure it out, but coming to a message board full of hate filled people who want to argue probably isn't a recipe for getting good advice. Looks like you maybe found a friend you could ask for advice and that's the best advice you will probably get. Find a couple people you actually know and trust who want you to be successful and talk to them.

Avoid angry internet incels.

thanks, I don't know why people on here are so rude for no reason, like I just want some advice, and people just hate??? Some random (oc anonymous user) comes at me for asking for advice, this place has some toxic losers

You can't be helped.

You created a thread and titled it "my coach is dragging me down" then have the nerve to claim you aren't blaming your coach.

You're right - It's everyone but you.

You have no idea what some athletes give up for the good of the team. * Baseball player are told you're our on base guy, draw walks and hit for singles, no swinging for home runs. * 6'3" or 6'4" guys are told in highschool basketball, you are a power forward, rebounds and screens only, last shooting option on the court. * Guys who were Pop Warner Football running back stars are told in highschool, center, pulling guard and/or lineman on defense. * You have no idea how many highschool quarterbacks, running backs and receivers are recruited for said position(s) then get on college campus and told to play defense.

You really aren't giving up anything.

Why did you post looking for advice. If you're only looking for agreement?

You are as unlikeable as they come. I'm betting you read the title and that's it as well. I also never said I wasn't blaming my coach.

if all you want is validation and people to agree with you sympathetically then F off back to reddit.

on this forum you will get the truth. quit whining. just run baby!

We aren't talking about football...we are talking about the individual sport of running

I don't want validation........???

Do you people NOT see that it CLEARLY says stop replying

I'm sure a lot of the people have their own reasons for being rude or angry or impatient or frustrated, but even if everyone tried to give their best advice, half of it would be contradictory so it'd be impossible to listen to everyone anyway.

Anyway, maybe find the least hate filled thread and update us on how things progress. Wish you the best.

makes thread then 'deletes' it 10 minutes later after 'receiving advice from close friend'.

🙄🙄🙄 a high school girl for sure.

What's hate filled about telling someone to quit whining?

This is like the 5th thread this person has created about how she's 2 minutes faster that her teammates, and her coach is holding her back by not letting her run with the boys? She's been told multiple times that nothing is holding her back and plenty of people train on their own.

Maybe I shouldn't have deleted the thread explaining I am not allowed to train on my own...I have to train with my teammates on runs....you know what? I like my team, thankfuul for them, just wish I could train alone. I deleted the context, that is why people are hating lol