Need help guys. We just graduated in June from Penn State. We moved to the city and she just got a contract with Wilhelmina. She’s super honest with me and told me that she has essentially been propositioned on nearly every other shoot. Said the last guy was a photographer who said, “We’re all going back after to Renato’s penthouse for a Nuru party. Come. Lots of snow there”.
What do I do here? I’m just a normal dude and she is dealing with this daily.
Need help guys. We just graduated in June from Penn State. We moved to the city and she just got a contract with Wilhelmina. She’s super honest with me and told me that she has essentially been propositioned on nearly every other shoot. Said the last guy was a photographer who said, “We’re all going back after to Renato’s penthouse for a Nuru party. Come. Lots of snow there”.
What do I do here? I’m just a normal dude and she is dealing with this daily.
Most likely you guys are going to break up. She's going to have so many options. She may not be interested at first, but she'll feel pulled to go to parties to network and that would be the right move for her. Either you can go out being a jealous dbag all the time or it ends on good terms and maybe you have a friend with benefits who is a model for some time.
There is nothing you can do, it is up to her how she wants to deal with it. You can inform her about how scummy the modeling business is, with many models getting hooked on drugs (sometimes intentionally by people at the agencies.) You can mention how a lot of the dudes are gay or bisexual which increases the chances of catching a bad disease. But if you do mention all of this she may think you are just doing it to hold onto her. If she is mentally weak and foolish enough to fall for those people then you are better off without her. She may be getting into modelling because she can, or because she has narcissistic tendencies. Most of the top women models fall into it because of their looks and never planned to have modelling careers. One of my girlfriends from many years ago became somewhat famous in entertainment and after reconnecting with her recently I came to see how she became very attached to her public image and I saw how from a very early age that is what she wanted. She does things not only for her own satisfaction but also if her "public" (fictional at this point) would approve. For me, sitting around worrying about what the public thinks and living for the approval of strangers is an empty and wasted life. If your girlfriend has a strong desire for modelling then it will be very challenging. Wait until she starts getting shoots in far away places like the Caribbean, West Coast or Europe. If she does runway work she will end up traveling to Paris and Milan. Professional modelling has a lot in common with professional running. You may as well think about these things and prepare yourself for whatever happens.
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Need help guys. We just graduated in June from Penn State. We moved to the city and she just got a contract with Wilhelmina. She’s super honest with me and told me that she has essentially been propositioned on nearly every other shoot. Said the last guy was a photographer who said, “We’re all going back after to Renato’s penthouse for a Nuru party. Come. Lots of snow there”.
What do I do here? I’m just a normal dude and she is dealing with this daily.
If she wants to seriously pursue a modeling career, she ought to understand that this is how the biz works still. It's an absolutely disgusting industry. If she wants to get ahead it's going to ruin your relationship eventually, with about 98% certainty.
Unless one has made it to the top already, modeling is a career dominated by single women for a reason; they have to be willing to jump around. Same true for male models actually, but they usually need to be willing to do gay stuff
Need help guys. We just graduated in June from Penn State. We moved to the city and she just got a contract with Wilhelmina. She’s super honest with me and told me that she has essentially been propositioned on nearly every other shoot. Said the last guy was a photographer who said, “We’re all going back after to Renato’s penthouse for a Nuru party. Come. Lots of snow there”.
What do I do here? I’m just a normal dude and she is dealing with this daily.
If she wants to seriously pursue a modeling career, she ought to understand that this is how the biz works still. It's an absolutely disgusting industry. If she wants to get ahead it's going to ruin your relationship eventually, with about 98% certainty.
Unless one has made it to the top already, modeling is a career dominated by single women for a reason; they have to be willing to jump around. Same true for male models actually, but they usually need to be willing to do gay stuff
I had a similar sit yrs ago. Ride the wave as long as you can and enjoy it. Just keep in mind it will end. Too many temptations out there for her. Beautiful women are community property. Met up w my old hottie after 35yrs she had a terrible life, 2 divorces, no kids, drugs, torn up... enjoy your time now then find someone else
Need help guys. We just graduated in June from Penn State. We moved to the city and she just got a contract with Wilhelmina. She’s super honest with me and told me that she has essentially been propositioned on nearly every other shoot. Said the last guy was a photographer who said, “We’re all going back after to Renato’s penthouse for a Nuru party. Come. Lots of snow there”.
What do I do here? I’m just a normal dude and she is dealing with this daily.
She may quickly figure out the industry and either get out or put strict limits on what types of work she will accept (such as "local assignments only".) Assuming you two live in NYC.
I find this hard to believe. I am an avid Ohio State fan and every time I watch OSU play PSU I say to myself, there are not many 5 star coeds in the PSU section. Unless she is a plus size model I question this. Good luck
Need help guys. We just graduated in June from Penn State. We moved to the city and she just got a contract with Wilhelmina. She’s super honest with me and told me that she has essentially been propositioned on nearly every other shoot. Said the last guy was a photographer who said, “We’re all going back after to Renato’s penthouse for a Nuru party. Come. Lots of snow there”.
What do I do here? I’m just a normal dude and she is dealing with this daily.
Even though none of this is true, I'd suggest getting tested for STDs anyhow.
