For starters they were separated for 3 years before he died and he died 3 years ago tomorrow. They haven't been together since the Summer of 2017. She asked me would it be ok to post something on Facebook since he died 3 years ago. A little back story she gets a lot of money each month in benefits because he was in the military, but she had no problem kicking him out 3 years before he died. The never got officially divorced, but she had to call the police on him a few times. She told me without the extra money she would be screwed. Should l be offended that she wants to put up a Facebook post with her and him tomorrow to honor the three years he's been dead ?. I mean we are in a relationship. She still refers to his parents as her in-laws too. Should l say something? They were married for 6 years.