I think that, at all levels of competition, men's performance tends to follow a normal distribution, while the distribution of women's performances tends to be right-skewed (ie, lots of performances around a point that is much further from the fast outliers).
Take a typical high school race for example. My experience is that most boys' races in competitive areas have 1 or 2 guys who can run in the mid to low 15s, a few more in the high 15s to low 16s, then the majority of the field comes through in 16:30-17:30. It's incredibly rare for a boy to run under 14:30 or so on an XC course.
On the girls' side (in the same area), a lot of meets are won with a time in the mid to high 18s (although it's reasonably common to see sub-18). Girls tend to trickle in until 19:30 or so, then most of the field is around 20:30-21:30. The big difference, though, is that lots of girls in the country run sub-17 on a legit xc course every year.
Basically, "normal fast" for boys is about 30-60 sec slower than national elite. For girls, "normal fast" is more like 2 mins slower. "Normal fast" is a term I invented for the kids who end up making up the bulk of the rosters on mid-tier D1 schools.
If you take a look at a graph of the distribution of testosterone levels in men and women, it looks strikingly similar to this distribution of performances, and I don't think it's a coincidence.