Been married 8 years and wife hardly ever in the mood.
This year went strip club with friend from high school, he lives overseas. He gets a lap dance and tells me he had sex with stripper. Stripper is 9/10 looks and body. I decide I need action too so end up at brothel and yes I sleep with a prostitute. I’m pretty drunk when this happens.
4 months ago went out with another friend got drunk again, he goes home, I go to strip club end up getting sucked into lap dance and then end up sleeping with another prostitute.
for me, these occasions are basically like self pleasure with someone else involved. Does this count as cheating?
ps I had a woman contact me to accuse my wife of cheating on me with her partner 2 years ago but absolutely no evidence of it and sounded like woman just out on a spree to find out what’s wrong in her relationship and looks like she accused someone else first who pointed finger at my wife.