I live across the street from a middle school in a mostly middle class neighborhood but near the downtown of a big city so there’s a little bit of everything (walking distance from nice restaurants & sketchy street corners, million dollar homes & homeless camps, city folks will understand.) Anyway, parents line up along our street in the afternoons to pick up their kids which normally doesn’t cause any problems but I do end up picking up pieces of school trash from the lawn/street/sidewalk in front of my house a few times a week. Yesterday I happened to be looking outside when the back seat passenger of a car right in front of our house rolled down the window and dropped something out. I’m generally very non-confrontational but I am a problem solver and for some reason I felt compelled to go outside and say something. When I approached the car I noticed it was a kid in the back seat so I knocked on the front passenger side window and the driver rolled it down. I said “Please don’t throw trash on our lawn.” The driver looked a little confused (maybe he wasn’t aware it happened or maybe didn’t think it was a big deal) so I just said “I’ll pick it up but please don’t throw trash on our lawn anymore, we live here. Have a nice day.” It turned out to be an apple core so not the worst. In hindsight I’m a little mortified that I confronted someone I know nothing about and told him where I live. I don’t even honk at people in the city because you never know who’s locked and loaded. My wife thinks if it was someone inclined to retaliate they would’ve been more confrontational in the moment but she also prefers I don’t take that approach again.
Was I right/wrong? Am I likely to get shot?