WhitePony wrote:
I believe in marriage equality, equal pay for equal work, not being able to be fired for religious, gender or sexual orientation, but I also believe that children's changing areas should be divided based on their biological sex. If we want to have unisex bathrooms for adults that is fine but I do not think that is appropriate in a public school for children entrusted to our care.
Minors legally have a lot less rights than adults so having a separate solution for them might be legally acceptable.
Elyse- What would the Federal Government say to a transgender kid who wants to shower with their biological sex. A biological male who identifies as a woman for whatever reason might want to shower with other males. Would you say they should be prevented from this? Or people just pick which shower they use?
The point is with showers for 2 sexes, these kids being minors, the schools solution to this seems perfectly reasonable and is an attempt to accommodate the transgender student. Some have noted the law could easily be - bathrooms are determined on biological sex - and the kid would likely feel even more uncomfortable.
Someone pointed out the case of someone self identifying as African American. There was that white woman who did that this year and she was ridiculed. I don't think the situation is the same as to transgender people but Elyse talked about transgender people's brains being wired to not match their bodies. Couldn't the white woman who said she was black say the same thing? The difference with transgender people is their is a biological component and hormones can radically change ones identity, but at the end of the day this transgender girl trying to use the woman's locker room has a penis so there won't be a solution that fits perfectly.
Society is rightfully fine telling someone "you can't say you're black when you're not." but now we're supposed to be pretend you don't have a penis when you do? The point being the school is trying to work this out and come up with a reasonable solution. 20 years from now everyone may be more accepting and they shower wherever, but the school's solution is not bigoted.
I'd like to see tgirl's comments. She posts on here and has transitioned from male to female and has helped me understand some of these issues.