My live in girlfriend of 7 years not invited to join family potrait

J.R. wrote:

so whats a family wrote:

Now here's the kicker. Now my girlfriend doesn't want to be in it because she feels she is not wanted. I'm not sure what I'm going to do.

Your girlfriend is right.

I would not have anything to do with the portrait at this point.

Good posts, Someone else responded to you under my handle, that wasn't me. My girlfriend wanted to be in the portrait but after she heard me on the phone only getting the OK for her to come after I threatened not to go if she wasn't invited, she decided not to go because she wasn't wanted.

I am not going either. Maybe if my mom called her and asked her she would feel welcome and agree to go. Then I would go.

What you describe is known as a "snit". Grow a pair.

Corn wrote:

What you describe is known as a "snit". Grow a pair.

You obviously either have never been in love or you have no loyalty to those you love.

Twisted nuts wrote:

thejeff wrote:

2. Mom is always right. If she doesn't like her, then there is something wrong with the two of you as a couple.

You should marry your mom.

She died.

It's ok. You didn't know.

madmandoc wrote:

Your mom is trying to pressure you to get married or trying to express disapproval of you / your girlfriend. You should not put up with that kind of behavior. Just be a man, call her bluff, and refuse to be in the family photo under such conditions. Your mother has no way to respond other than get the photo without you and explain to everyone why one of her children is not in it.

Ignore the idiots who tell you that you should get married. You know what is best for your life, not them. The world is full of people who wish they did not cave in to pressure to get married. You will know when, if ever, you want to do that.

Thanks

so whats a family wrote:

A piece of paper doesn't define a family.

You realize its not the 1950's anymore.

U. R. Stupid wrote:

You're the idiot. A live in gf is not part of your mom's family.

Who said anything about a piece of paper?

Family involves absolute and permanent commitment.

"girlfriend" - doesn't mean shit other than that you are (hopefully) banging her

"live-in" - doesn't mean shit either.

Family involves absolute and permanent commitment.

Your welcome.

U R A COMPLETE IMEBCILE! wrote:

so whats a family wrote:

A piece of paper doesn't define a family.

You realize its not the 1950's anymore.

Who said anything about a piece of paper?

Family involves absolute and permanent commitment.

"girlfriend" - doesn't mean shit other than that you are (hopefully) banging her

"live-in" - doesn't mean shit either.

Family involves absolute and permanent commitment.

Your welcome.

So you never heard of common law wife and its legal status and rights? You haven't have you?

So now tell me who the idiot is.

Your Welcome!

The Next Client wrote:

Nope. The mother should have just said it's a family portrait and let the family decide who's in.

So, "the family" decides who is "the family"?

Gotta love your mashed potato brain.

respect is earned not owed wrote:

Your lifestyle is a disgrace to your family. If you want your family to consider your girlfriend part of the family, marry her and stop living together in sin.

"living together in sin" - That's hilarious.

Thanks for the chuckles.

thejeff wrote:

Twisted nuts wrote:

You should marry your mom.

She died.

It's ok. You didn't know.

The one that got away. Sorry dude.

so whats a family wrote:

U R A COMPLETE IMEBCILE! wrote:

Who said anything about a piece of paper?

Family involves absolute and permanent commitment.

"girlfriend" - doesn't mean shit other than that you are (hopefully) banging her

"live-in" - doesn't mean shit either.

Family involves absolute and permanent commitment.

Your welcome.

So you never heard of common law wife and its legal status and rights? You haven't have you?

So now tell me who the idiot is.

Your Welcome!

Ummm..who said anything about legal status and rights, imbecile?

Here you go again, just in case you missed it:

Family involves absolute and permanent commitment.

Note that it is not limited to "legal status and rights".

IMBECILE!

(but nice troll thread, by the way)

I've connected my name to this wrote:

I assumed the position of emancipated minor and set up housekeeping with my gf at 16. My parents were supportive and hers disinterested. We never married but remained lifelong best friends.

Sounds like you were a really dumb 16 year-old, and your parents idiots as well.

I know of a case where a mother had a few children that were fathered by her oldest son. Mom is always right.

U R A COMPLETE IMEBCILE! wrote:

so whats a family wrote:

A piece of paper doesn't define a family.

You realize its not the 1950's anymore.

Who said anything about a piece of paper?

Family involves absolute and permanent commitment.

"girlfriend" - doesn't mean shit other than that you are (hopefully) banging her

"live-in" - doesn't mean shit either.

Family involves absolute and permanent commitment.

Your welcome.

Great post. No married couple has every demonstrated anything less than absolute and permanent commitment, you are right.

Moron.

With a seven-year history, they have lasted LONGER than the majority of "absolute and permanent commitment" marriages.

OP, if I was your mom I'd be more likely to invite your girlfriend and disinvite you from the portrait due to your no n-stop sniveling.

mawidge wrote:

U R A COMPLETE IMEBCILE! wrote:

Who said anything about a piece of paper?

Family involves absolute and permanent commitment.

"girlfriend" - doesn't mean shit other than that you are (hopefully) banging her

"live-in" - doesn't mean shit either.

Family involves absolute and permanent commitment.

Your welcome.

Great post. No married couple has every demonstrated anything less than absolute and permanent commitment, you are right.

Moron.

With a seven-year history, they have lasted LONGER than the majority of "absolute and permanent commitment" marriages.

So, some folks make "commitments" that they do not keep and therefore there is no such thing as a commitment?

Great thinking.

IMBECILE!!!

thejeff wrote:

Twisted nuts wrote:

You should marry your mom.

She died.

It's ok. You didn't know.

That is sad that the OP's mom is dead.

so what's a family wrote:

Corn wrote:

What you describe is known as a "snit". Grow a pair.

You obviously either have never been in love or you have no loyalty to those you love.

Actually I have been in love and proved it in part by marrying her. Forget the financial advantages; I had the cojones to make a commitment. That's where you and I differ.

Both of you are idiots if you don't realize that it is "you're" not "your."

so whats a family wrote:

U R A COMPLETE IMEBCILE! wrote:

[quote]so whats a family wrote:

A piece of paper doesn't define a family.

You realize its not the 1950's anymore.

[quote]U. R. Stupid wrote:

Family involves absolute and permanent commitment.

Your welcome.

So you never heard of common law wife and its legal status and rights? You haven't have you?

So now tell me who the idiot is.

Your Welcome!