I don't know her name yet and we're going on a 3rd date

Another Punk Rock Kid wrote:

Clevererer Than You wrote:

"Yeah she is, I guess I'll just look her up ... oh right I don't have her name." Idiot

I have a question for you. When you read my post, did you really think that I was being serious? Honestly?

Sadly, with the amount of very ignorant people, he probably did think you were serious and just stupid.

just to clarify this wrote:

Sadly, with the amount of very ignorant people, he probably did think you were serious and just stupid.

How much people is ignorant?

Mr E-man wrote:

just to clarify this wrote:

Sadly, with the amount of very ignorant people, he probably did think you were serious and just stupid.

How much people is ignorant?

Already he told you

THE AMOUNT

Can you not read good?

UnderdogII wrote:

Her name is Victoria. It is on her underwear, dummy.

That was supposed to be a secret.

Avocado's Number wrote:

Just keep calling her by her stage name.

Would that be stage left or stage right?

I don't know what his name is but oh well.

If you have her number, do a backtracer to find out who owns the phone number...

Til the World Ends wrote:

If you have her number, do a backtracer to find out who owns the phone number...

but if he does that consequences will never be the same!

For reasons that are about to become apparent, I'm not gonna write this post using my regular posting name, but I have A LOT more experience with this name situation than I should, and I can't recall anytime it's gone horribly wrong...I tend to forget people's names immediately after I meet them, especially when I'm drinking (kind of ironic since I'm usually quite good at memorizing things).

There have been a fair number of times when I'm talking/dancing/hanging out/making out with a girl (even going home with) whose name I have totally blanked on. Obviously, you found yourself in a similar situation and are now contemplating further relations w/ said female. I've learned a few tricks that may be of help:

1. Checking the driver's license...if you go somewhere to drink, she'll have to take it out. Think of some reason to make a comment, which can be easy if she has a unique/out-of-state license. Maybe laugh and be like "haha, that looks like a fake I used to have, here lemme see that." Then tell some story about how you altered an ID w/ a felt-tip marker to make your first fake (true for me), and how scared you were when you first tried it (also true). Make sure to look hard at the back as well, so it deflects suspicion.

2. The phone...last spring I woke up with a young lady next to me, and her phone was also on the bed. I could barely remember the night before, much less where I ran into her, and so as she was passed out I took a quick look at her phone, and one of the last messages from her friend had the girl's name in it (it turned out I had met this girl the previous fall so I actually had her number in my phone, which I confirmed by calling my number on her phone - you probably won't be so lucky, so think of an excuse to check out her phone "wow, that's a cool phone, can I see it?" which works especially well with the new smartphones since there's tons of places the owner's name could show up).

3. Facebook. Just say "add me, here's my email," or "what's your email, lemme add you," or think of some excuse to send her an email like you wanna forward something to her...then send a follow-up with some question or whatever that requires her to reply.

The language thing would also work if you have some tact...but think of reason to get on the topic first.

Places to avoid are places where you may have to write down her name: bowling alleys, bars where she may wanna play darts/pool, or where you could run into friends, especially if they say, "Hey who's your friend?"

Good luck, mate.

Is her name Mo Huber..

Bring her to an AA meeting for your next date. "Hi, my name is __________, and I'm an alcoholic."

rsbones wrote:

FWIW, you don't have to "hope" a call will go to her voicemail. Just use

http://slydial.com/

and it will go to voicemail and hopefully her name will be on her outgoing message.

Bingo

I noticed this thread yesterday and read more today, and I guess it speaks volumes to the level of excitement in my life when I'm finding myself overly interested in whether or not this dude got her name or not and how he managed to do so.

Maybe she knows you don't know her name, and she's going to purposely withhold her name just to see how long she can go until you actually admit it and ask her.

-

http://www.whitepages.com

(free)

- Google for a number

- if the 1 and 2 return no result, then there are:

-- Whitepages Pro

http://pro.lookup.whitepages.com/

-- Cell phone lookup at

http://www.reversephonelookup.us

The last two ones are paid!

Also you can try calling her at night from different number in order to reach a voicemail :)

When I am introduces or get a persons name for the first time I alway repeat their's and mine and say something repeating it.

Argangia Flambot, Sanslut Milfart.

I know a couple of folks named Flambot but you are the first Argangia Flambot I've met. Do you prefer Argangia or is there another name you'd like me to use. Many of my friends call me Slutty.

I didn't read through everything, but there is a really good chance you can find her on facebook even without knowing her name.

Any mutual acquaintances? Know the name of any of her friends? Know where she went to school, or where she works, or her hometown?

If you can find someone she is friends with on facebook, you can probably find her.

It's Chum Lee