Toxic Masculinity is a sham wrote:
Masculine. Tough. Assertive. Successful.
You don't even need any of this to bag zoomettes. Maybe the right measure of assertiveness, but literally making eye contact and engaging some modicum of small talk works. Oh, leave your phone on airplane mode during dates. At least you won't be a hypocrite and irritated by her checking hers 12 times an hour.