OP here. I just text the loafer lady and let her know it was a nice meeting, but I have a few more dates this week so tied up for a bit. She responded, “thanks. doing my taxes this week so also busy. chat soon”. This is the exact thing that turns me off. Loafers, talking about taxes….boring.
In another life, I think you would have really liked just doing laundry and taxes with her.
She had a cute face, but a woman wearing loafers is a major turnoff. Feels masculine to me. I’ll just tell her I have a few other dates and will get back to her. Anyone else bothered by women in loafers?
Better than my last date. She sniffed the snow every 15 minutes in the washroom or outside at the five-star restaurant and ran up the bill with no shame. Expensive champagne. I don't think she took more than two bites of her $100+ dollar food but then again she looks like a bulimic VC model. I ghosted that 304 faster than Casper.
I have been chatting/texting some more respectable women as usual, but they're more difficult for me to follow through with as they rightfully have high expectations. I don't want to disappoint them too much if they expect to do marriage or start a family. I won't waste a woman's time. But if the high value woman exclusively wants to have fun, then I'll humor her desires to the fullest extent. Nothing better than a 9 or a 10 on the rebound from a broken relationship.
She had a cute face, but a woman wearing loafers is a major turnoff. Feels masculine to me. I’ll just tell her I have a few other dates and will get back to her. Anyone else bothered by women in loafers?
So high heels are fun & sexy, but nobody wears them all the time unless they want to be a cripple. Is there a difference between a date and a hookup? What woman is going to wear FMPs on a first date with some potential dork who could be a loser alcoholic, serial killer, or worse?
Prior to getting hitched, I dated a SoCal bombshell for 3 years. She loved making a splash in heels, sheer nylons and mini-skirts. The over-the-top presentation was her super power, and she reveled in it. She was a mechanical engineer, but also played piano and painted. Our first couple dates? Sneakers, then flats. The third date, a sexy red dress with white spike heel sandals. Weekend daytime hangs were just as likely to be running shoes or hiking boots however.
No I'm not a troll writing fiction, truth is stranger than fiction, yes?
We had a good time, but she was looking for a rich husband who was not me.
She had a cute face, but a woman wearing loafers is a major turnoff. Feels masculine to me. I’ll just tell her I have a few other dates and will get back to her. Anyone else bothered by women in loafers?
What a silly thread! Who cares if she wearing loafers if it's not in the bed lol
She had a cute face, but a woman wearing loafers is a major turnoff. Feels masculine to me. I’ll just tell her I have a few other dates and will get back to her. Anyone else bothered by women in loafers?
What a silly thread! Who cares if she wearing loafers if it's not in the bed lol
I have to agree with OP. Growing up I don’t think I ever saw a woman wearing loafers. I think it’s part of the womens lib movement.
Nonsense. A number of the wealthiest and best dressed girls in my HS ('66-'67) wore Bass Weejuns or similar loafers. It was a very preppy look.
This is correct. Loafers for women is a preppy/Ivy League look. It was generally popular in the 1950s and 60s and in the prep revival in the 1980s. If she comes from an old money WASP family and you're a gold digger, you may be missing out.
She had a cute face, but a woman wearing loafers is a major turnoff. Feels masculine to me. I’ll just tell her I have a few other dates and will get back to her. Anyone else bothered by women in loafers?
You are such a loser. If you’re not Jamin we have officially seen something worse. Listen to your Jordan Peterson podcast and clean your room.
She had a cute face, but a woman wearing loafers is a major turnoff. Feels masculine to me. I’ll just tell her I have a few other dates and will get back to her. Anyone else bothered by women in loafers?
