AlohaState wrote:
I’m a lot younger than 72, but I am a parent of two adult children. I’m absolutely paranoid and I stare off into space when I’m anxious about the future. I’m also stiff when I get out of a chair. Im positive I don’t have dementia ; )
The world is a totally totally different place than it was 30-40 years ago. When I was growing up, fathers worked and mothers stayed home. Children played outside. It was expected that most workers could afford to buy a single family home and retire with a pension. It’s frightening to see how fast America is declining. It’s not paranoia. It’s legitimate fear. Drugs, homelessness, housing crisis, loss of opportunities, wars, corruption, government spending, devaluation of the dollar, and unsustainable debt. All this is new to us (the last ten years is a tiny blip when you are 72) and it feels like a dystopia. Every parent and grand parent I know feels the same way, Democrat and Republican.
The early onset dementia gait is easily recognizable if he doesn’t move his arms when he walks and looks bewildered. He could also have arthritis in the knees or a bad back.
All parents age, their memory’s decline, and their bodies ache. But I would not jump to conclusions at this point. If he’s getting regular physicals, the doctor will know the signs.
You are not alone. The standard of societal behavior has declined; a host of bizarre things pushed as normal. The Assistant Secretary of Health is a dude now masquerading as Admiral Rachel Levine. He (sorry it is a man) advocates for policies not too long ago that would be delusional at best, worst criminal, or grounds for commitment to a mental institution. So weird, hard to believe it does not blow up. Thank goodness I grew up when society had some norms.