Lol, come on dude what did you just say?? Children are not always a reflection of their parenting? That's like saying the sun doesn't always rise from the east lol!! Do you even know what you are spewing?
A proverb for you to ponder Mr Smartypants:
"For want of a nail the shoe was lost; for want of a shoe the horse was lost; and for want of a horse the man was lost."
"The depths of the ocean starts with a single drop of water."
"A journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step."
"A single picture speaks a thousand words."
All these proverbs imply meanings and consequences that tell or show us that no amount of influence of a parent on a child's upbringing IS TOO DAMN SMALL!!!