First, the people who behave like a hivemind most in the US are Democrats. There's a reason identical talking points are used by the White House all the way down to every anchor on every show in the media.
Second, some things don't really have much wiggle room. The "pro-life" Democrat doesn't exist in public office. You can't even win a primary as a pro-life Democrat in 2022. If you want to hold office as a Democrat you are pro-choice or you go home.
The Democrats and the media are controlled by the coastal elites. These people live in a bubble and have no idea what real people in the rest of the country think. While, AOC and other imbeciles like yourself think sexually mutilating children is just a demonstration of what good people you are, NORMAL people think you're monsters.
If you had any brains you'd be saying "uh oh" too. Democrats literally haven't been as unpopular as they are right now since the 1860s when they started a Civil War.