Yusef Scumm. wrote:
Ultimatums are a crappy thing to introduce into a relationship, let alone a marriage.
Think hard and weigh YOUR long term options.
And don't forget to weigh how your options affect YOUR CHILD.
This goes for the wife as well.
Giving an ultimatum that could leave your child without their father around on a regular basis because SHE wants more kids is as selfish as considering leaving your child because your wife demands more kids.
My brother is in the situation.
He has two teen kids from a previous marriage and now two younger kids from his current marriage.
His wife wants more kids and it's straining their marriage.
In this case, she is now 40 and he's a couple years older.
They really need to be done having kids. I do see the stress on him by this pressure.
There is no happy answer.
Sorry