Make excuses to dress in outfits that attract you to one another. Dinner dates and events that are in warm conditions such as swimming/ resort vacations. Also it's not terrible to imagine other people once in a while when involved, just make sure you don't mention anything out loud and always use your partner as the "relief" from mental tension, not your own vices (hand, toys, etc.)
alexmegoscarrots wrote:
I'm currently training for a sub 4 minute mile after quitting my college team and I'm having trouble with this girl I'm dating. I can't seem to keep my eyes off other girls and although I genuinely love and am extremely attracted to my girlfriend, I know I'm going to have to end things with then because I clearly still am wanting to sleep with other girls. What gives? Why do I suddenly want other hot girls badly when I have one already? Will I eventually be satisfied with one person a few years down the road, or will this be a constant battle? I also imagine my testosterone from constant training is making things harder, but any advice is appreciated. I feel like a piece of trash sometimes because my girlfriend would marry me if I asked her.
pleasure yourself FURIOUSLY on a daily basis...
What you think you feel is not love or even respect. You care only what your girlfriend does for you. Love and respect mean that you want to do things FOR that person that make them happy and hurting them would cause you pain.
Some are not capable of love or even honesty in relationships. Conquest is all some people are capable of. That may be you. Or She may not be the right girl for you.
Be honest with yourself about your needs. If you are a decent person you will be honest with others, especially those you are in a relationship with. However your post does not point to you being honest with anybody.
It is totally natural to be attracted to women other than your significant other. Anyone that tells you they aren't are a liar.
It is not normal, admirable, inevitable, or ok to act on that attractiveness and do anything.
It comes down to self control and anyone that cheats, every single time, just lacks it and is not a good person. There is no excuse for it.
bang as many as you can
The way I think of it is no matter who you have, it won't end up working out as is.
Our behavior needs to mature to keep anyone. Otherwise, it becomes a destructive cycle.
Gotta value what u have vs taking a quick spin that don't mean a thing.
Build a life together. Joint activities. Maybe get a pet first.
NotLove wrote:
What you think you feel is not love or even respect. You care only what your girlfriend does for you. Love and respect mean that you want to do things FOR that person that make them happy and hurting them would cause you pain.
Some are not capable of love or even honesty in relationships. Conquest is all some people are capable of. That may be you. Or She may not be the right girl for you.
Be honest with yourself about your needs. If you are a decent person you will be honest with others, especially those you are in a relationship with. However your post does not point to you being honest with anybody.
+1 and I also agree with Flagpole’s first response about being a “quitter”, ..with that said..nothing wrong with being attracted to other people, however, if you feel the need to act on your physical needs then let your partner or the person you’re in a relationship know so they can protect themselves from catching a disease 😉 in other words, let them move on to someone who has similar monogamous beliefs.😊
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