I will try to make this short.
If he, or anybody, had done this to me, either he or I would be on the ground either in a submission hold, or incapacitated, because it would be on.
And it HAS happened to me, so I don't want to hear any of your bull$hit.
It's time for these kids to grow up and be men. There are ways to deal with these things, either man-to-man or otherwise. There are some things more important than doing what is generally considered "smart"--there is doing what is RIGHT.
What I absolutely cannot believe is that players' teammates stood by and let this happen. I would, and HAVE, stepped in when $hit was going down.
How can these guys have any self-respect? Not just the guys getting assaulted, but their friends and teammates standing around watching? The answer is that they don't. They rationalize that they did the "smart" thing, but you can be damn sure that they are hurting inside, if only a little--especially now that it has come out.
What a joke. Those kids should grow up, I don't care what their "situation"is , their "background"is, or what their "prospects" are. By doing nothing, THEY are perpetuating the cr@p that is responsible for all the "bad situations" in this country.
Coach is an a-hole for sure, but the reason is because nobody's ever taught him a lesson. Unbelievable. Really unbelievable.
And these moron kids go around talking about "respect" all the time. What a bunch of lip-service garbage, they don't know what it means. I know that you can't count on some people to follow your lead--there will always be those who hide in the corners--but you know what? When you try, you will find some who WILL follow, because it's the right thing to do and they know it.
Kids are really ignorant about power and authority, right from the college girls who are subject to inappropriate touching, to the college basketball players, who are also subject to inappropriate touching. Middle school, OK, kids are young. High school, maybe--some are still young. But in college, they are ADULTS. They must TAKE their power, NOBODY is going to GIVE it to them. Apparently nobody has ever taught them any history.
I sitll can't believe it.