[quote]CalvinJ wrote:
The spark thing is bullshit. It's just a woman's, excuse me, girl's excuse to blow a guy off after stealing a meal out of him.
They all say they want a nice guy, someone to treat them right, someone to split dates with/be in an equal partnership with, etc... Yet the moment one comes along, she writes him off because he's not "a bad boy".
Girls thrive on drama and want a guy that will cheat and hit and ignore her and anything else that is negative. Why? Because as children they're told if a boy hits you then he likes you. The seed is planted very early.
Thanks for your opinion, but this is written awfully authoritatively and couldn't be more wrong for me and pretty much all of my friends.
I'm a girl, one who has had pretty much zero luck dating. (Hold off on the comments, I'm actually not a hideous freak). My point is, no girl is going on a date to "steal a meal". If they're on a date in the first place they want to find someone too. The "spark" comment is probably just an excuse for them realizing something wasn't right, or maybe circumstances changed in their life and they aren't available anymore.
Personally and for all of my friends, NONE of us want to be treated like crap or have a bad boy. I've never in my life been told if a boy hits you it means he likes you. I take someone being a jerk as a sign to peace out. I'm just looking for someone who I can talk to and relate to and find somewhat attractive, who, despite what you say, treats me well. I don't care so much about money, it can't make you happy anyways and I make enough of it.
Sorry to drone on, I guess I just get frustrated with all these super negative posts with such rash generalizations. This post obviously, but a ton of the running posts as well. It's a bummer how anonymity brings out the worst in people.