Not it's not. It's obsessive. Only elites with really big goals, AND have already had experience in the past, should even think of taking on a program like that. For a hobbyjogger, 80-90 miles max.
I train around 11 to 18 hours per week for triathlon. There are several key factors to making this successful.
1. Be a morning person. I do 1 to 3 hours of training in the morning before anyone else is even awake.
2. Have an indoor training setup. I have a home gym with my bike trainer and treadmill and have both connected to Zwift. I can squeeze in a quick session very easily in the morning and evening without anyone noticing I am gone.
3. Be flexible. You need to be capable of changing or shortening workouts depending on life circumstances.
4. Financial stability/High paying job. It’s a lot easier to justify a selfish hobby when you are making a lot of bank. plus, having a Nanny is very helpful. If you are making 60k, you should probably be hustling instead of training….
5. Don’t forget about your family. If I am too tired to have fun with my kids and wife, I am probably training too hard…
With all due respect, its just not that hard to get miles in. 3 runs a day sounds excessive and a real chore. I’m 55, no kids at home, but it would not matter if I did. Just finished 80+ mile week and all miles completed before 630/7am. Summertime, will be done by 6a, 7 days a week, 1 run per day. Plenty of time to run my business, quality time with the wife and free time for me. No TV, no wasting time on mindless things….well, except LetsRun…
For those that may have missed this thread (see below). Edna Kiplagat, at age 43, signs with PUMA! She’s a mother and manages to stay on top. Further research shows JUST how busy she is. It’s a cool thread:
My tempos now are 7:30s for 3-4 miles on a good day. A few years ago I did more mileage/heart rate slow training and could have extended that to 13.1 in a race, but not at the moment. Currently training for sub-70 400 and 2:40s 800 with lots of strength and mobility training for my main sport. Mostly happy just to be injury-free with lots of variety in my training and each day pretty high in the "play" factor with sprints, drills, intervals and fartleks.
I’m about to turn 30 and just had my first child. I am still training but don’t imagine getting past 70 MPW or so because I want to be there for my family and have energy to do that! During the work week I get my miles in early in the morning (usually after feeding the baby) so I can be present and helpful in the evening. Then On weekends I can justify some 90 min to 2 hour runs or so. To be blunt, past a certain point it seems like high mileage for a parent is just an excuse to get out of the house and skirt your parenting responsibilities.
Hi I’m the wife. Yes I’ll take the kids and do all the real work. Please get up early and would especially support you if you did extra long runs on Sat and Sunday. I can handle it all. Maybe you can work part time so you can run 3x a day. Can’t wait to tell all my friends what a warrior you are! Who needs a nice home? I like renting. Keep at it!
First of all, the OP described it very well, no doubt helpful for anyone who wants to do it that way from 40+. But the bottom line is that I agree with the quoted post. I know two families at once where the fathers make their endurance sports the center of not only their lives, but compulsively for their wives and children. Both women openly say how much this pisses them off. During the long preparation phases with the crazy long runs or - even worse - six or more hours of cycling for Ironman training, the fathers are so tired that they always have to sleep afterwards. Helping in the garden or around the house? No, all that has to be adapted to their training. A nice long hike in the mountains with the kids? No, too tired, doesn't fit into the training or jeopardizes the next training session. The whole family has to be there for the competitions, the whole long day or the whole weekend.
In short, at 40+ run less and see.
I know an hobby ultrarunner who, in a single year, does: multiple 100 mile races, 1-2 multiday 200+ milers, and several 50k-50milers sprinkled in. Many involve travel, some overseas. Says he does it to "inspire" his 4 young kids, the youngest of which is <1 year old. I'm sure his 3 year-old was absolutely elated and inspired he finished 18th at the Cocodona 250.
The only family vacation they go on each year is when the whole family attends one of his races. Honestly, I think he does it to get away from his family and I know for a fact his marriage has been strained because of it. If he were honest about why he's running it'd be one thing, but saying he's "doing it for his family" is the most ridiculous thing he could say.
30mpw + 2-3 weightlifting sessions is about the sweet spot for me. If I didn't do weightlifting I could probably get the mileage up to 50-60mpw which is about as much as I'd want to do.
I think a better (but less entertaining) thread would have been "How to run every day without impacting your work, family, and parenting responsibilities." I honestly think some dudes need advice on how to be more efficient and strategic with their training. How to train smart (and hard) without it messing up your life... that would be a thread some people could actually use.
For me what works is just constant, open communication with your wife/spouse/significant other. A lot of men struggle with communication at times.
She supports my running and is totally fine with it, and may run someday. Right now, she does Irish Dancing.
I know it wasn't written for me. We are all just trying to figure out the WHY of the whole project. Just tell us "you love running for running's sake" or "you want a BQ" or you want "to break 2:40" or something. I just never figured out the why. And I read the whole post.
And now that I think about it, I have a second question, would running this much actually make you a better runner? Wouldn't known coaching techniques be better?
It is someone with an exercise addiction. Better than a drug or porn addiction, but an addiction nonetheless.
The old motto of everything in moderation is almost universally correct. Other things in this guy’s life are suffering to some extent because of his obsession/addiction.
There are a lot of instafluencers with this kind of issue (exercise addiction). But they have so many followers and are popular on social media so people buy into it. Think AOTR.
I entered my 40s as a distance runner running 60-70 asnd sometimes up to 100 mpw while working construction, and also being a top performer in a completely unrelated sport. I won a few lower level races (i.e. 34/1:18 times), but it was all too much, especially during base-building phase. Summer of year 41 I ran an 800 in a track meet and ran a time few other masters locally were running (2:09). I deftly and smartly made the switch and became a 800/1500 runner, clocking in 30-50 miles/week and freeing up a lot of time and energy. Upshot is I picked up some nice national hardware, ran lifetime PRs 1500 and below, and coached some other runners to national titles. I also find that 800 training is by far the most fun and healthy long-term, in conjunction with other balancing sports, well into my 60s. Gone are the daily doubles and triples and 18-20-mile long runs, but in are variety sessions emphasizing speed and stamina. I am likely one of the most overall fit multi-sporters in the country/world for my age, and almost never sick or injured, and have fantastic health markers.
What could you run for 10k and half now?
Guy is talented but quite obviously bragging. I think he has natural talent but respect that he was smart enough to switch race types and drop mileage.
I train around 11 to 18 hours per week for triathlon. There are several key factors to making this successful.
1. Be a morning person. I do 1 to 3 hours of training in the morning before anyone else is even awake.
2. Have an indoor training setup. I have a home gym with my bike trainer and treadmill and have both connected to Zwift. I can squeeze in a quick session very easily in the morning and evening without anyone noticing I am gone.
3. Be flexible. You need to be capable of changing or shortening workouts depending on life circumstances.
4. Financial stability/High paying job. It’s a lot easier to justify a selfish hobby when you are making a lot of bank. plus, having a Nanny is very helpful. If you are making 60k, you should probably be hustling instead of training….
5. Don’t forget about your family. If I am too tired to have fun with my kids and wife, I am probably training too hard…
60k is a solid, not great, but still solid income. And many runners do well in the Midwest on that salary! Also, a nanny? Only the super-rich have nannies.
Guy is talented but quite obviously bragging. I think he has natural talent but respect that he was smart enough to switch race types and drop mileage.
Of all the elements in my very modest age-group running successes, talent for running is probably the least, unless you count careful attention to lifestyle and especially injury avoidance. Nonetheless, after setting my state's record for 50+ 800m, my Achilles gave up and relegated me first to a survival shuffle for a decade, and once recovered, only at a much reduced performance level, despite no injury issues. Not the case for my other sport, at which I am near world-record level performance, never having had a serious injury while performing at a high level for over 30 years.
My main point is to stay steadfast in your love of running, but be willing to pivot, even radically so, in your goals and methods. I don't see many doing this in the face of inevitable life setbacks.
Guy is talented but quite obviously bragging. I think he has natural talent but respect that he was smart enough to switch race types and drop mileage.
Of all the elements in my very modest age-group running successes, talent for running is probably the least, unless you count careful attention to lifestyle and especially injury avoidance. Nonetheless, after setting my state's record for 50+ 800m, my Achilles gave up and relegated me first to a survival shuffle for a decade, and once recovered, only at a much reduced performance level, despite no injury issues. Not the case for my other sport, at which I am near world-record level performance, never having had a serious injury while performing at a high level for over 30 years.
My main point is to stay steadfast in your love of running, but be willing to pivot, even radically so, in your goals and methods. I don't see many doing this in the face of inevitable life setbacks.
I gotcha now. I respect your take on this and understand it.
Nice report. I am a father of five, 12, 10, 7 4, 2 yesrs old. Never was a high miler, I ran more in periods when my children were sleeping in a stroller and I could run during their sleeptime. Now I run on and off with the older children but mainly stay active with them through soccer, xcski, tabletennis, padel etc. It is a Great feeling to be in physically ok shape but always fresh enough to practise with them.
This post is really about time management IMO. MPW is just a variable that contributes to the amount of time you spend running. My experience as a father of 3 (5,2,0) with a pretty serious career is that I can find creative ways to cram in 12-14 hours a week without any impact to work or family. Beyond that and literally the minutes don’t exist unless I am failing somewhere else.
At that volume I barely have time to take a crap and am creatively fitting running in by run commuting from and to daycare to drop off the kids and pick them up. I am also waking up at inhumane hours for long runs. That said, it is doable if you want running to be the “third” thing that you are serious about.
I know a few dudes who also top at at 12-14 hours a week and a few of them hit 120-140 mpw. Only difference is that they are faster than me.
This post is really about time management IMO. MPW is just a variable that contributes to the amount of time you spend running. My experience as a father of 3 (5,2,0) with a pretty serious career is that I can find creative ways to cram in 12-14 hours a week without any impact to work or family. Beyond that and literally the minutes don’t exist unless I am failing somewhere else.
At that volume I barely have time to take a crap and am creatively fitting running in by run commuting from and to daycare to drop off the kids and pick them up. I am also waking up at inhumane hours for long runs. That said, it is doable if you want running to be the “third” thing that you are serious about.
I know a few dudes who also top at at 12-14 hours a week and a few of them hit 120-140 mpw. Only difference is that they are faster than me.
Not true. You can kid yourselves and justify the narcissistic obsession, but it’s not just time management.
All that training tires you out and you are less engaged in many of the other responsibilities of life.
This post is really about time management IMO. MPW is just a variable that contributes to the amount of time you spend running. My experience as a father of 3 (5,2,0) with a pretty serious career is that I can find creative ways to cram in 12-14 hours a week without any impact to work or family. Beyond that and literally the minutes don’t exist unless I am failing somewhere else.
At that volume I barely have time to take a crap and am creatively fitting running in by run commuting from and to daycare to drop off the kids and pick them up. I am also waking up at inhumane hours for long runs. That said, it is doable if you want running to be the “third” thing that you are serious about.
I know a few dudes who also top at at 12-14 hours a week and a few of them hit 120-140 mpw. Only difference is that they are faster than me.
Not true. You can kid yourselves and justify the narcissistic obsession, but it’s not just time management.
All that training tires you out and you are less engaged in many of the other responsibilities of life.
To be clear… you believe that you are able to accurately discern how every human being on the planet responds to 12-14 hours of week of running without knowing anything else about their training or lifestyle?
How do you define engagement in the workplace and parenting? Is it income and hours spent with kids or some other meaningful metric? My guess is that you haven’t really put a ton of thought into this and it’s really just a gut reaction exposing your own insecurities about parenting, your career and your running.
"but saying he's "doing it for his family" is the most ridiculous thing he could say"
When you are looking for an excuse, any one will do.
I think doing anything like running or competing "for" some cause is always false and always a hokey Hollywood contrived BS way of acting like you are sacrificing, when in reality YOU want the glory and the satisfaction that come comes from doing X.
"I'm competing in the Olympic for my dying mother."