I learned she goes out about 4 times a week at night with friends to bars, lounges,… to have a few glasses of wine or shots, but not until she is drunk. She usually comes back home around 12am.
I am personally used to people going out with friends at night mostly only during the weekends (friday/saturday). So to me this seems like it is a lot. What do you think ?
Yikes. If what you're saying is true, and she is actually going out and drinking 4x a week, then steer clear my friend. Happy, healthy people don't feel the urge to drink that often, especially at that age. This person doesn't sound like they'd make a very good partner. I'm sure there will be plenty of people who disagree, but people with experience dating know that relationships with the overly hedonistic types don't end up well.
I learned she goes out about 4 times a week at night with friends to bars, lounges,… to have a few glasses of wine or shots, but not until she is drunk. She usually comes back home around 12am.
I am personally used to people going out with friends at night mostly only during the weekends (friday/saturday). So to me this seems like it is a lot. What do you think ?
Sooo... did she go out 4 times in a week and that's now how you label her, or does she really only go out maybe once or twice a week, but you wanted to sensationalize the situation?
All the incels on here terrified of people who enjoy socialising and going out, and have a tight group of friends lol
If it bothers you, or you don't trust her implicitly, break it off.
But she's not doing anything wrong. I bet you run four nights a week.
If you’re equating drinking until your drunk 4 nights a week with going for a run 4 nights a week maybe you need to go back and rethink your position
shouldn't you be the one to go back and read? The OP specifically said she *doesn't* get drunk, she goes out for a few drinks 4x a week. The amount of Karens in this thread is astonishing, good lord
I learned she goes out about 4 times a week at night with friends to bars, lounges,… to have a few glasses of wine or shots, but not until she is drunk. She usually comes back home around 12am.
I am personally used to people going out with friends at night mostly only during the weekends (friday/saturday). So to me this seems like it is a lot. What do you think ?
If you’re equating drinking until your drunk 4 nights a week with going for a run 4 nights a week maybe you need to go back and rethink your position
shouldn't you be the one to go back and read? The OP specifically said she *doesn't* get drunk, she goes out for a few drinks 4x a week. The amount of Karens in this thread is astonishing, good lord
The OP said a few drinks, which is more than a couple (two), so usually meant to mean three. Two drinks is enough to get the US average 170lb woman on the borderline for legally intoxicated for driving 0.08% BAC, and three drinks is almost certain. If this woman is a runner type, say 140lbs or under, two drinks is more than legally intoxicated for driving. The OP is likely talking about her not being outwardly drunk, but at least the legally intoxicated line is being passed four nights a week unless she is a very large woman.
If you’re equating drinking until your drunk 4 nights a week with going for a run 4 nights a week maybe you need to go back and rethink your position
shouldn't you be the one to go back and read? The OP specifically said she *doesn't* get drunk, she goes out for a few drinks 4x a week. The amount of Karens in this thread is astonishing, good lord
Yeah so many posters who skipped over the only bolder text in the original (fake) post.
Nothing wrong with going out with friends. I'm my 20s I went out 5 or 6 nights a week. The issue is the drinking. I probably didn't have 4 drinks most months in my 20s even though I was out all the time. Now I likely don't have 4 a year.
It sounds like she can't go out with friends and not drink and that is a bad sign.
A few drinks four times a week at 29 for me personally would be a red flag. A few drinks (which generally means more than 2) would mean she is drinking at least 12 servings of alcohol a week which is nearly double what is recommended for a women. This also assumes the drinks are a single serving and she doesn't drink any other time. That isn't a healthy lifestyle and in your late 20's its going to start catching up to you. I want, and married, someone who cares about their health. You may have different priorities.
I learned she goes out about 4 times a week at night with friends to bars, lounges,… to have a few glasses of wine or shots, but not until she is drunk. She usually comes back home around 12am.
I am personally used to people going out with friends at night mostly only during the weekends (friday/saturday). So to me this seems like it is a lot. What do you think ?