Kobbs Hessler wrote:
You pose an important question. There are real answers, but they are waaaayyy beyond the tolerance level of this board. The increasing number of voluntary and involuntary male incels will continue apace and no amount of female complaining of shaming will reverse it. This has real civilizational impact too, as society needs men to do actual, real work like... plumbing, construction, sewer maintenance, garbage collection, welding, building and maintaining electricity grids, tech innovation, search and rescue, most agriculture, etc. To put it as delicately as possible, men will only do those jobs for a carrot or to avoid a stick. Since we all agree that slavery is bad and never making a comeback, then the stick isn't an option. So the carrot better be worth it. What is that carrot? Women. But alas, the value of that reward carrot has declined, hence along with it - male productivity. That explains unmotivated men playing video games all day, never going on dates, being lackluster boyfriends/husbands. There is a fascinating new article on Substack by "Bright Eyes" called "The f--k rate is about to implode." It goes deep on your question, but requires a five alarm trigger warning for most of you.
Alex from Playing With Fire (111k subscribers) has some reasons as to this growing epidemic of sexless young men:
And no wonder guys are giving up on dating! Look at this chap here - you couldn't ask for a nicer guy. He was close friends with this girl he met online & finally got up the nerve to meet her & ask her to be his GF. The girl, not that attractive at all, brutality rejects him having the most ominous look on her face during the entire date as if it pains her to be there. So, this poor chap is probably never going to want to meet up with a girl he likes again.
Before you slicksters say "just be yourself bro" & have charisma & charm - watch how those things had zero effect in this situation. This chap is heartbroken & totally devastated! 🙁 He might as well just stay home & play video games.