My neighbor is insane

bbn wrote:

What's up with all the anti-white stuff in the world? The cause of it is what leads to antisemitism.

I’ll be honest, it did kind of feel that way? Like she’s a Jewish lesbian and I’m a straight white dad. She made some other comment about us having different cultures, or different communication cultural norms when I asked her to stop screaming at me and making sarcastic hand gestures (like 👍 and 👌) in my face about how much she doesn’t like my family.

She also said that the fact that I talk calmly and don’t raise my voice is evidence that I’m actually creepy and threatening.

It was super weird and extremely crazy.

Get a restraining order on the crazy hoe.

Ok dude, assuming you are serious, stop being baited by this guy. He is spouting straight anti-semitism and needs to be shut down hard and frankly banned. I’m sure I’m not the only one who has reported him. Stop engaging.

Your neighbor sounds like a b****. That has nothing to do with the Jews, the whites, or “problem with today’s society.”

Holy hell.

the letter why wrote:

Ok dude, assuming you are serious, stop being baited by this guy.

I was just saying that the thought did cross my mind that maybe she hates me so irrationally because I’m…like, different from her. And she sort of said as much. Again, she brought all the Jew/Wasp/culture stuff into the discussion, not me.

Move your trash can to her driveway.

Make em disappear if ya know what I mean. 😏

the map the territory wrote:

I don't know bro, this sounds more like Lizard People to me.

I saw your neighbor in this video!

Well, at the very least I feel affirmed in thinking that she is the crazy one and not me.

Oh yeah, she also (as she was lying about various things) accused me of “gaslighting” her. I think this was when I denied having forced her to build the fence.

Basically she just accuses me of all the things she is doing.

what do i do wrote:

the letter why wrote:

Ok dude, assuming you are serious, stop being baited by this guy.

I was just saying that the thought did cross my mind that maybe she hates me so irrationally because I’m…like, different from her. And she sort of said as much. Again, she brought all the Jew/Wasp/culture stuff into the discussion, not me.

Who cares? If that’s true, it doesn’t validate any of this bbn idiot’s comments. It just means you have a crazy neighbor, which you already know. He’s trying to make this some sort of global problem because, again, he is a literal antisemite.

Just get a camera directed to the problem zone and start a youtube channel.

You will be rich and famous in no time.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d0r49QLV_oY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0y1gz1xLawU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_88nDTpkKyE

And please post a link so we can enjoy it too.

What would I do and bbn clearly the same person.

One mentions Jews "in passing" the other hits em hard. Then, "hmmm yeah, you may be right"

You set em up, I knock em down.

moran spotter wrote:

What would I do and bbn clearly the same person.

One mentions Jews "in passing" the other hits em hard. Then, "hmmm yeah, you may be right"

You set em up, I knock em down.

No…

First, set up cameras on your property Then, on your side of the property line, talk to your neighbor clearly and firmly. Not your wife, YOU. Have your wife and maybe a buddy present, observing and listening as witnesses, at the time of ALL conversations with this neighbor. Do not be lax. I suspect that she will accuse you of all manner of things. Always record, have witnesses, and after each interaction make complete, dated notes. Have your wife / witnesses also make their own separate dated notes after each interaction. [Keep in mind that this neighbor may have a personality disorder that is causing her to act out against selected targets (such as you), and that if so, the only way to resolve it is to rein her the F in with zero other options available other than to comply] Record the conversation. Should be legal, on your own driveway / property. Check with attorney first. Tell her that it is your driveway, and that she may not use it without written permission from you, the owner. Tell her that she has created fabrications about your statements. Tell her to immediately remove anything from your property (such as a fence). Tell her that she has 3 days to comply, or you will both enforce the matter legally AND sue her for your legal fees and other costs. I'm guessing she will not comply. Take plenty of photographic and video evidence. Make copious dated notes of all your observations; have your wife and multiple other witnesses do the same. After the 3 days, check property lines etc as this poster suggested:

sat and didnt kick wrote: grab the county/city surveyors report and pay for a property line re-survey with her present

it won't help the crazy, but it would be a trusted 3rd party that clearly delineates where the property line is

When completed, have your attorney write a letter, along with relevant copies of report(s), with the appropriate demands. Have it delivered in a manner where she must personally sign for it, both at home and work if possible. Include a deadline, such as a specific date in the near future ... say, in a week.

After that, follow your attorney advice. You may go straight to court for enforcement of your property rights and legal/surveyor/other fees, or maybe first you hire contractors to remove any fencing/other from your property.

The key here is an overwhelming pile of mutually corroborating evidence and witnesses, both to support your case and to protect yourself against the bull**** that she is most certainly going to try to pull against you.

Also, tell her that you will take legal action for any false statement she makes about you to the police or to any third party. Have your attorney do that in writing.

Good luck.

Seriously, you need to put in an official complaint to your city/town . We had a similar situation and it only gets worse. She’s trespassing. The municipality will send her a notification that she’s breaking the law. Personally I would put up the highest fence permitted. She’ll eventually move her cans or have to wheel them down her yard.

What? Scroll on by, there are plenty of threads to fit your agenda.

…and please no junk like “take a dump on her lawn” or whatever. Real advice only on how to live beside unstable, litigious people.

Does she have a dog? Hammer frozen sausages into her lawn.

what do i do wrote:

oldschoollrc wrote:

Does your wife or husband get along with her better?

My wife has been put in charge of communication, because the lady hates her slightly less. My wife doesn’t like being in this position though, ........

Tell me then, what postion does your wife like being in?

what do i do wrote:

She has a garage at the end of her driveway that she turned into her therapy office. .

You need to find out if her home is permitted for that use. If not, a call to the city is in order.