The Gallant Pig Man wrote:
So you used to bang her but have also been attempting to fill the role of... a father figure for her? And now you're thinking of terminating your association with her entirely because she sucks at her job and likes to party more than you do?
I don't know what the right label is, but that doesn't sound like "friends" to me. Pretty weird stuff, frankly.
Sounds like control issues!