Our society is morphing into more than conservative vs liberal biases. There are conservatives that don't care how people chose to live their lives and there are growing number of liberals who are bent out of shape by the use of self selected pronouns. The same goes for mandated vaccines, corporate controls over citizens, education, etc., etc.
Personally, it's no sweat off my balls if someone wants to be addressed as binary/trans but I am off put by the need to apologize or cancel someone if a stranger gets it wrong. Salem witch hunts come to mind.
I can understand why there are other citizens who kick back when they feel pressured to do something against their sensibilities.
It reminds me of the days of conversion therapy, except we're attempting to mandate that anyone who isn't woke enough be converted via harsh means.