straight dude here
- my best friend is a girl. I'm closer with her intellectually and have had the best conversations with her.
She's bi if that matters, but I really don't think sex and/or gender matters here
I'm straight physicaly - gay intellectually - please give advice.
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I myself am physically gay, intellectually straight, emotionally bisexual, and spiritually I am a deranged pansexual pervert.
Shut up, stupid
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Date an Asian man, their bodies are not much different physically from women .
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Simple - You identify as a baseball bat.
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No joke, I got an ad about HIV prevention on this thread.
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The right answer wrote:
You're a hetero misogynist.
Yes, this is obvious. You are wrong that other guys all feel the same way. Many, yes. But still a minority. It's good that you have surrounded yourself with only similar guys, because they will give you comfort as you age and become butter about your loveless marriage.
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just a normal dude wrote:
Background of me:
I've always been attracted and curious towards girls since I can remember.
Girls turn me on, make me curious and excited, and I love having sex with girls and generally girls really
like me since I'm goofy and extroverted and decent looking and skilled. And girls are so beautiful to me as well.
That said I've been dating a girl for 6 years now and have dated/talked and hooked up with many girls throughout my life. I'm 25 right now btw. Also I am pretty into philosophy and psychology and whatnot and consider myself pretty high on emotional intelligence.
All that said I don't really know if I like girls intellectually. Even my own girlfriend whom I love and adore and find sexy af. I enjoy her company, her sex and sex appeal, and her general bubbly personality and whatnot. I plan on marrying her but recently I noticed I'm really not that attracted to her personality. This bothered me for a while so I did some deep thinking and realized all the conversations and minds I love are Mens. (This is not a troll post hear me out). I'm not gay but am not afraid to say I love some of my guy friends (not physically attracted to them) but they are just so interesting and I can actually effing relate to them. They know the pain I've been through because they are guys, they know what it's like to be my sex, and I think that matters a lot.
And I notice girls like girls minds as well. My girlfriend love talking to girl more than me I think. I think she likes talking to me because were dating and she "loves" me but honestly I think woman and men after thinking about it don't really find the other sexes personality interesting. I think evolution and reproduction made me attracted and curious to the opposite sex, but all I really wanna do with girls even my own girlfriend is have sex then go hangout with my guy friends.
Sex with girls and talks with guys is life right now. I figured this out because I almost wanted to break up with my girlfriend because I pictured how if we married she would just bore me (if she was all I had). So I thought about other girls and I did talk to a few out and whatnot and they all bore me. So there's no point in breaking up with her and I started hanging out with guys more and noticed lately I'm way more happy.
The crazy thing is I think this applies to everyone. Guys generally hangout and like guys. They don't actually like girls. It's why were mean to girls. It's just how it works. Everything is a shame. Love defined conventionally isn't real. I love womens mysteriousness and bodies, but I actually feel like I love men more in a different relatable way.
What say you?
what are your favorite operas? opera is very very gay-- yet concersely, there are many amazing & highly libidonous women who participate and are fans of the form. this is your great opportunity.
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sounds like you just have a girlfriend who probs just talks about meaningless stuff like the new iphone, what's on tv, hair salons, other people. my ex was into greek mythology, writing and reading books, video games even counter strike, travelling, space, awesome music, movies like district 9 and pitch black, computers, cooking, trolling.
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grow up wrote:
You aren't nearly as smart as you seem to think you are. Get over yourself, bro.
Why do idiots always seem to think they're smart? Blows my mind.
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OP, Congratulations on smoking weed for the first time.
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Lol I seriously hope this is a troll thread. If it's not then you basically just had a major epiphany discovering that boys rule and girls drool. So much for being emotionally intelligent....
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My wife is my best friend and is very funny and smart.
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closet door opened wrote:
Congratulations, you are gay. Still quite a bit of denial going on, but you'll be there soon. The irony is, once you fully come out, you'll be too busy sucking your "buddies" dicks to have conversations anymore.
Naahhh. Sounds more bisexual than gay. If he's lucky he finds women who are fine with that and they have amazing and varied sex with others
Bisexual male is a big win for a reasonably intelligent woman. You'll come to the same conclusion if you haven't already.
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Post of the day goes to Napalm.
Very insightful.
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