Young man (23) dating an older woman (35)

Absolutely nothing wrong with it. It's natural to think about that, but in the end, it's not going to matter. Have fun.

So you had a sugar mama? That is a whole different topic than a regular relationship my friend. Good on you though.

So you had a sugar mama? That is a whole different topic than a regular relationship my friend. Good on you though.

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Tincho wrote:

So I recently graduated college and found myself in a pretty serious relationship with a 35 year old woman. Things seem to be going really great as both of our personalities and beliefs mesh super well and she is definitely someone that I can totally trust to always support me. What I am concerned about is the fact that when i'm 48 she'll be 60, and when im 68 she'll be 80. A part of me would like to believe that if I'm in love with her that would not be a problem.

Can you share of personal or friends stories where the woman is significantly older than the men and how it has worked out and what kind of challenges they faced?

The fact that it worries you, and the fact that you needed to get support or validation from THIS site, means that you are doomed.

When you're 38 she'll be hitting menopause, and trust me, it is no walk in the park for anybody involved. At 23 years of age you shouldn't be considering anything long term yet anyway - but she certainly is.

seriosity wrote:

I am 41 and my girlfriend just turned 50. We have been together for 4 years. It works because I am kind of an old soul. Trust me. Your scenario will not work. First, it is on the edge even if the male were older. Second, you are simply too young. You might be especially mature and wise but I promise you will not want this commitment in 5 years. Enjoy your time together. But be realistic. Be fair to her and be brutally honest with yourself.

Similar situation. I'm 40, wife is 48. She doesn't look it, doesn't act like it, so it works quite well. We've been together 3 years, married a little more than 1.

That said, every once in a while it dawns on me in an abstract way that I'll be married to a 50 year old before too long. I think it's probably because I'm transitioning into "middle age" and I haven't quite got younger stereotypes out of my head.

I've been with several cougars and it is great. The biggest age gap was when I was 23, she was 47. You can have real conversations, go somewhere classy, have someone who appreciates hard work and dedication, and have amazing sex. This is because women don't become selfless and hardworking until they have been completely cut off from their parents or have a kid. They also reach their sexual prime in their 30's while men reach it in their 20's. It is like God intended for you to be with an older woman. However, for child bearing purposes you must marry someone around your age. Every relationship I have had with a cougar has never been exclusive. I let every one of them know from the start that I will ultimately be with someone my age. Generally, these women have some kind of desperation and will be completely fine with that. No one wants to be single in their 30's and unfortunately for these women they have reached that. So any kind of compassion they will appreciate. Also, most cougars are not looking to marry a guy significantly younger than them. They see you as someone to make them feel young and attractive. Someone with energy who will fulfill all of their desires. You remind them of the best years of their lives. You are their fantasy just as much as they are yours. But you can't live in a dream world. I would appreciate what you have, but I would find a girl your age to keep on the side.

When I was a 22 year old college senior and a D111 runner I meant my future wife - a 27 year old college freshman and a new member of the team. We were married two years after I graduated and a year before she did. Still together and she still looks and acts younger than me - 30 years later!!!!!

35, currently dating a 50yr old. she's drop dead hot, drinks beer with me, but doesn't like ipa's, which means I can leave my beer and it's just how I left it when I com eback. likes it daily, and more. goes on trips with me, can even jog a little, has a rockin little body, perfect skin of a 25yr old (it's honestly weird how perfect her skin is). she makes 6 fig so that's nice to not have to support her, though I still pay for most everything, which I don't mind in the slightest.

trust me, I've had the same thoughts, if we stay together I'll be married to a 60yr old when i'm mid 40's, that's kinda odd- but since she actually looks younger than me, I don't really give a S*** and neither should you. have fun, enjoy the ride

Monica Belluci the latest Bond girl is 60 years old. Perhaps the hottest 60 year old out there.

I do like older women, too. I am about to turn 43...I have the same concerns when I date someone a little older.

She's 50.

when i was 26, i had a relationship with a 44 year old woman. we were kindred spirits. everything worked great except the whole "friends" thing--both sides' friends found it strange, but not even close to a deal breaker.

what broke it was me being too young to settle down with woman of declining looks. i started two-timing with a smokin' hot 30 year old. man, her body was luscious. i'm shaking my head as i write this. man, oh, man, just luscious. but, as a person, she was a 4. the things a young man does because of sex.

it didn't last but a few months; even that hot bod soured on me when combined with her personality.

sex is such a big deal when you're under 40; it has a ton of pull when it comes to your decisions. i lost out on years and years of great companionship because of it. such is life.

I mean this in all seriousness and not trying to be creepy, but it will probably come across as creepy.

Young women are attractive. It's biologically wired into us to prefer youth and health and vigor. Maybe as you age you will start to prefer older women around your same age, but it has not happened for me. When I was 20 I thought 20-year olds where hot, and now at 35 I still think 20-year olds are hot. Again, this sounds creepy. Thank God for anonymous message boards. I always expected my preferences to change...they didn't. Hot people are still hot people.

While you are 23, please go out and bang as many 19 to 23-year old women as you can. You have plenty of time in your life to bang 35-year old women. If you still remember this post in 12 years, you'll nod to yourself and say "he was right".

I think it's strange how it seems to be more normal for the man to be a lot older when in fact women live a lot longer on average. This means the woman should be the older person in the relationship if the couple wants to spend as many years together as possible, in my opinion.

not my real name. wrote:

the current one is nearly 50, looks 33,

Wishful thinking

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