who is Emma??? wrote:
gsdfslkj wrote:why does Emma so badly want to see him burn?
I don't know Emma
You sure do seem to know her, referring to her over and over by first name.
Are you Hadsell?
These ongoing posts are creepy. No wonder they got rid of you.
Well now I'm sure Hadsell isn't posting on here, if you really think I'm him.
Emma is easier to type than Kertzeirjx or whatever her last name is.
Look, it's as simple as this: Both Emma and Hadsell have lied about what actually went down on their team, so there's some big truth that neither of them wants to acknowledge. The simplest answer is that they hooked up. All the pieces fall into place if that is true.
Let me outline it step by step:
1) Emma wants to see Hadsell burn because she was dumb and slept with her coach, and then found out her roommate was doing him on a regular basis. She feels cheated, lied to, and pissed off, and probably realizes, correctly, that his behavior is not becoming of a college coach. But she won't admit it because it makes her look dumb. And some who know her have implied it would affect her relationship.
2) So she decides to take Hadsell down by exposing his inappropriate behavior. Emma edits her texts to remove herself as a guilty party and shows them to her AD to make Hadsell appear to be an abusive figure, when in fact, no sexual harassment has taken place. Whatever happened between them was fully consensual and wanted at the time. If not for that minor detail that Hadsell happened to be her coach, everything would have been fine and dandy. The rest of Emma's complaints with Hadsell are easy enough to come up with because they're true. The man apparently has no boundaries.
3) Hadsell denies the sexual harassment accusations, and is telling the truth. He denies all the other accusations that make him look like an a$$hole because he wants to preserve his good name. He doesn't admit to sleeping with any of his athletes because that gives him a$$hole status. He can't say that Emma is just taking him down for using her.
My guess is that he can't even admit to himself that sleeping with his athletes was wrong. He probably doesn't think he's an a$$hole for what he did, and he doesn't realize that the whole thing would blow over much quicker if he just came out with the truth.
This is just my guess. I live a long ways away from Toledo and don't know anybody involved, but I've been fascinated with the case because my coach has some Hadsell-esque traits, and I'm worried about history repeating itself.