When she says she "wants to get married as soon as possible" on the first date.

Who knows, man. Who knows. Two kids living elsewhere, for all I know, could mean that she has two kids in college? I have no idea how old you, she, or her kids are (like everybody else on this thread).

Saying that she wants to get married as soon as possible is a definite weird move right off the bat, but again: Who knows? You have given little context. I am sure she was saying this in a general way, like, "The clock is ticking, I dont want to be a single person in my 50s, 60s." Not exactly tactful, but tact might not be your top consideration. Wouldnt be mine.

The man living downstairs, however, is perhaps where you have been most vague. It isnt necessarily uncommon for people to sublet part of their house, especially splitting floors. Maybe that it is a man is a bad thing, but likely it is not. You dont know, but we obviously have no idea.

I have never used an online dating service, but I would not be surprised if it were considered totally normal, SOP in twenty years.

Now let us hear the responses to the thread: "He posts about me on Letsrun after one date...what to do?"

What to do? wrote:

What to do?

Is this stuckwithmatch. new handle?

For the billionth time, RUN!!!!!

Two kids living elsewhere and one at home?

You know what this means?!

SHE PUTS OUT!!!

Hit it and quit it, man!

Hey, the customer is always right!

Marry her, quick!

this is why i do not live in a small town

irony killed the cat wrote:

what to do wrote:

thanks for the replies, all

I should have figured it was too good to be true

3 kids and dude living downstairs is too good to be true? Who honestly would want that? She is worth nothing more than a good time but then baby #4 could be yours. Risk is not worth the reward, this chick has an MO.

Another vote for

"Run!!!"

What to do wrote:

but also has a guy living in the house:

"He lives downstairs"

Is that a letsrun poster living in the basement? Maybe he would be a good training partner...

I was in a similar situation ten years ago and although I never married the girl we still live together.

Only difference,in my case,was that there was no dude "living down stairs".

Another vote for RUN.

HIT and QUIT.

THEN RUN!!

RUN!!!!!

mebert wrote:

Is that a letsrun poster living in the basement? Maybe he would be a good training partner...

Well done!

Slightly different advice: Do NOT hit and quit. Just QUIT.

This is the kind of woman who will tell you she is on birth control, and hates the way that condoms feel, then *oops*--whaddaya know: preggers.

Even if you use a condom, she will want you to stay inside her (till you soften up, and there is spillage); or she will take the rubber off you, when you are finished, and accidentally get some stuff on her fingers, which will accidentally find their way inside her; or she will put it on you herself, and accidentally put a nick in its tip with her fingernail; and then she will end up pregnant with "your" kid, which gets born six-seven months after your first time with her--and surprisingly well grown, for a preemie.

To my personal, certain knowledge, all of these situations have occurred.

However, try to be nice about it. When you quit, tell her how attractive/sexy she is, but that you just do not feel right about it. Or whatever. Bottom line, you want to part SEMI-FRIENDLY...because you do not want her, either out of revenge or so-called love, getting back to you. (And yes, if that includes changing your phone number/address, do it!)

Oh, and that classic: one last time, before you call it quits? Skip it. That is when babies get made.

wooooooooowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sounds like somebody got their bank account fvcked over for 18 years or so. did that shit really happen to you?!

Hopefully you have read this thread and already decided to

RUN

You can run but you cant hide. To stop her stalking you, you will have to pretend that you are way more psycho than she is. Scare the living shit out of her, and then you might be safe.

What to do wrote:

Known her one week

Dating Service

Said she had one kid, actually has two others living elsewhwere

Hot, nice, but also has a guy living in the house:

"He lives downstairs"

Probably a tranny. That's where 'he' lives.

Seriously....Run for ze hills!

Revise your dating profile. RUN!

mebert wrote:

Is that a letsrun poster living in the basement? Maybe he would be a good training partner...

You seem to be of the -get lemons,make lemonade group- do you bring soap to a golden shower too?

cabana wrote: To stop her stalking you, you will have to pretend that you are way more psycho than she is. Scare the living shit out of her, and then you might be safe.

The truly crazy dont scare very easily.