I've heard that sex is different for men and women in that there is, on average, a greater emotional bond for women while it is more "just physical" for men. Is there any validity in this?
I paid a lady to clean my house once… she’s probably cleaned hundreds of houses. I feel so violated.
Well personally I don't need to resort to using a prossy but if you're a lower value male then you will have to leave your pride at the door.
You know your idol had to kidnap and rape sex workers to get laid.
Also, never used a prostitute, but I’m not judging them for their job, just like I’m not judging a cleaning lady or a garbage man or anyone who’s job doesn’t hurt other people.
And anyone who calls themselves a ‘high value’ man or ‘alpha’ is guaranteed to be a pathetic insecure underdeveloped loser of a person.
Do you go to church? That's not only cheating, that's called sexual immorality which is a sin.
You really need to open Scripture right here:
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 - Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.
Hebrews 13:4 - Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. 1 Peter 2:11 - Dear friends, I urge you, as foreigners and exiles, to abstain from sinful desires, which wage war against your soul.
Dude, why get married if all you worry about is you? Once you get married you forget all this me me what about me, you have to be told that? I pity your wife.
Dude, why get married if all you worry about is you? Once you get married you forget all this me me what about me, you have to be told that? I pity your wife.
Not everyone has an open marriage that allows them to get pounded out on the side. I pity your wife
I went marriage counseling with my first wife and to one that had some speciality in sex/intimacy therapy. My wife cut me off in the bedroom not 3 months into our marriage and our relationship was rapidly crumbling because of it. At the time, I worked for a University and was surrounded by young, pretty women. I was 28 at the time so dating a college student didn't seem so far-fetched. The therapist flat out asked my wife "would you be fine with him having sex with a pretty girl that he met on campus since you are not having sex with him?"
My wife didn't say anything and had no emotional response at all to that question.
Right then, I knew my marriage was officially done and we did divorce not long after that. I also knew that I could hook up with as many women as possible and my wife would not CARE. What my wife did care about is if I developed a relationship with another person.
A year after we divorced I started dating again. She already had boyfriend by this point but a mutual friend told me she was very upset about my new relationship, lol.
It just goes to show how different men and women are. Men are triggered by sex. Women are triggered by relationships.
Been married 8 years and wife hardly ever in the mood.
This year went strip club with friend from high school, he lives overseas. He gets a lap dance and tells me he had sex with stripper. Stripper is 9/10 looks and body. I decide I need action too so end up at brothel and yes I sleep with a prostitute. I’m pretty drunk when this happens.
4 months ago went out with another friend got drunk again, he goes home, I go to strip club end up getting sucked into lap dance and then end up sleeping with another prostitute.
for me, these occasions are basically like self pleasure with someone else involved. Does this count as cheating?
ps I had a woman contact me to accuse my wife of cheating on me with her partner 2 years ago but absolutely no evidence of it and sounded like woman just out on a spree to find out what’s wrong in her relationship and looks like she accused someone else first who pointed finger at my wife.
What kind of a lowlife goes to a prostitute? Have an affair and spend money on a side piece instead. It’s socially acceptable prostitution and more fulfilling.
I went marriage counseling with my first wife and to one that had some speciality in sex/intimacy therapy. My wife cut me off in the bedroom not 3 months into our marriage and our relationship was rapidly crumbling because of it. At the time, I worked for a University and was surrounded by young, pretty women. I was 28 at the time so dating a college student didn't seem so far-fetched. The therapist flat out asked my wife "would you be fine with him having sex with a pretty girl that he met on campus since you are not having sex with him?"
My wife didn't say anything and had no emotional response at all to that question.
Wow, this is such a FUNNY STORY!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!
Ok but yeah you are a sexually immoral man then based on Scripture below:
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 - Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.
Hebrews 13:4 - Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.
1 Peter 2:11 - Dear friends, I urge you, as foreigners and exiles, to abstain from sinful desires, which wage war against the soul.
Control yourself big man. Sex is not the only thing in this world. I bet you have a porno addiction problem too. Every time you feel like hooking up, try reading a book and novel to take your mind away from it, trust me, it works every time. You could also go for a run in the mountains. The mountains will take away your lust and sinful urges.
Men don't need sex, they need God. Every time men wants sex, they actually really want to have sex with the true source of their pleasure which is God Himself. Get it?
When it comes to sex, men are weak on their knees like little babies. Women are strong and powerful and want all the action. It only seems the opposite is true due to the 'inertial force' effect which is a fictitious force. The one apparently not doing all the physical work in sex is the one relishing the physical work in actual actuality.
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I went marriage counseling with my first wife and to one that had some speciality in sex/intimacy therapy. My wife cut me off in the bedroom not 3 months into our marriage and our relationship was rapidly crumbling because of it. At the time, I worked for a University and was surrounded by young, pretty women. I was 28 at the time so dating a college student didn't seem so far-fetched. The therapist flat out asked my wife "would you be fine with him having sex with a pretty girl that he met on campus since you are not having sex with him?"
My wife didn't say anything and had no emotional response at all to that question.
Wow, this is such a FUNNY STORY!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!
Yep! It's too bad I just didn't run out that night and hit up some campus bars. But, I was good little boy and waited until the ink was dry on the papers and then racked up some nice numbers with my new freedom. Not hard because I'm good looking and really fit. It was fun!
Do you go to church? That's not only cheating, that's called sexual immorality which is a sin.
You really need to open Scripture right here:
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 - Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.
Hebrews 13:4 - Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral. 1 Peter 2:11 - Dear friends, I urge you, as foreigners and exiles, to abstain from sinful desires, which wage war against your soul.
Now repent!
A pity that even the priests don't believe their own book.