Mikeh33 wrote:
Sadly this is not confined to your friends. It is a national trend, and has been for awhile.
Note the final word of the story: men who laze about and don’t work are not sexually attractive to women.
Really attractive men are attractive to women no matter what. OTOH less attractive men are not attractive to women but if they have money the women might be attracted to that. The latter situation is unattractive to many men these days.