Are these red flags?

samcallan wrote:

Concerned guy wrote:

I took woman out recently..

At the restaurant, she asked how much money I made. I don't make much, in fact I'm a part time carpenter. I decided to tell her I was a stock broker. She asked me at which brokerage and I immediately froze because I don't know anything about stocks. So I made up a name, I called it Diversified Investments. She seemed impressed. (phew!)

When the bill came, it was over $300. My meal was just $35 including the drink. She insisted on expensive wine, desert and one of the most expensive steaks. I've nearly maxed out my credit cards and wasn't sure if I could pay the full bill. When I asked her to cover her share of the bill, she immediately said I was a cheap and useless man who would never see her again.

I was embarrassed because she made a scene about it. She left and then I started to become really worried because I knew I was responsible for the bill. Well, my credit card was declined.

What should I do?

2) I assume the OP chose the place. If so you know what your financial constraints are so pick accordingly.

Concerned guy wrote:

I took woman out recently..

At the restaurant, she asked how much money I made. I don't make much, in fact I'm a part time carpenter. I decided to tell her I was a stock broker. She asked me at which brokerage and I immediately froze because I don't know anything about stocks. So I made up a name, I called it Diversified Investments. She seemed impressed. (phew!)

When the bill came, it was over $300. My meal was just $35 including the drink. She insisted on expensive wine, desert and one of the most expensive steaks. I've nearly maxed out my credit cards and wasn't sure if I could pay the full bill. When I asked her to cover her share of the bill, she immediately said I was a cheap and useless man who would never see her again.

I was embarrassed because she made a scene about it. She left and then I started to become really worried because I knew I was responsible for the bill. Well, my credit card was declined.

What should I do?

Concerned guy wrote:

I took woman out recently..

At the restaurant, she asked how much money I made. I don't make much, in fact I'm a part time carpenter. I decided to tell her I was a stock broker. She asked me at which brokerage and I immediately froze because I don't know anything about stocks. So I made up a name, I called it Diversified Investments. She seemed impressed. (phew!)

When the bill came, it was over $300. My meal was just $35 including the drink. She insisted on expensive wine, desert and one of the most expensive steaks. I've nearly maxed out my credit cards and wasn't sure if I could pay the full bill. When I asked her to cover her share of the bill, she immediately said I was a cheap and useless man who would never see her again.

I was embarrassed because she made a scene about it. She left and then I started to become really worried because I knew I was responsible for the bill. Well, my credit card was declined.

What should I do?

Do you even run? wrote:

Concerned guy wrote:

I took woman out recently..

At the restaurant, she asked how much money I made. I don't make much, in fact I'm a part time carpenter. I decided to tell her I was a stock broker. She asked me at which brokerage and I immediately froze because I don't know anything about stocks. So I made up a name, I called it Diversified Investments. She seemed impressed. (phew!)

When the bill came, it was over $300. My meal was just $35 including the drink. She insisted on expensive wine, desert and one of the most expensive steaks. I've nearly maxed out my credit cards and wasn't sure if I could pay the full bill. When I asked her to cover her share of the bill, she immediately said I was a cheap and useless man who would never see her again.

I was embarrassed because she made a scene about it. She left and then I started to become really worried because I knew I was responsible for the bill. Well, my credit card was declined.

What should I do?

You’re on letsrun and you let an out of shape woman who just ate a steak, drank a bottle of wine, and still had room for dessert beat you out of the restaurant in a dine and dash? Do you also lose 5ks to old ladies?