Had a coaching interview with a relatively small college in the middle of nowhere. Their campus had a real, post-WW2, concrete & steel vibe. No character nor beauty. I immediately felt depressed.
The initial part of the interview was with the FORMER AD (retired) who was involved in the process because they had not been able to fill her former administrative position (for well over a year...a big red flag). I later was shown around, introduced around to staff/faculty, and taken out for meals with the acting AD (who I later found out was interviewed for the AD gig but was passed over...stating to see a bad trend).
The school had been advertising for a Director of XC/Track but it turns out that they'd just hired a head XC coach (who lasted about 18 months before realizing what a disaster the athletic department was becoming) who was told they he'd be operating independently. WTF?
I knew very quickly that the situation was not conducive to successful coaching. Too many issues and conflicts. My long drive home from the multi-day interview was spent being glad that I already had another tolerable job to go back to.
The hardest (most cringeworthy) part of the process was when the former AD called a few days later and offered me the job. I politely turned her down. She didn't appreciate it. She got a little aggressive about why I turned it down. I explained that the lack of a cohesive, stable administration within the athletic department was very concerning and I suggested that situation should be resolved before addressing the coaching vacancy that had its own structural/leadership quirks. She didn't like that either. As she was getting all lathered up to come back at me a second time, I politely thanked her for the interview, the consideration, and the job offer but I was declining and hung up quickly before she could launch into another tirade.
The program is still a s***show to this day.